Questions on my mind

The big question on my mind this week is how. How am I supposed to be all I'm supposed to be? How do you have peace with Christ? How do you rely on His strength? I want step by step answers and I have a feeling they don't exist. If you can't give me answers, show me. Show me someone who really lives that. What does it really truly look like to put your strength in Christ? I sure don't know.