Love

It seems to me that love is very much a choice. I think this is why relationships can be so hard. Sure those warm fuzzy feelings come easily right away. But then you really have to work hard to keep those feeling. A lot of people don't want to work hard so they give up and decide they are no longer in love and they separate. Well personally I think that's stupid. Feelings are so fickle, especially as a woman. I can go from flirting and have a grand time with my husband to being really angry at him. I have mood swings like crazy, and I'm not even an emotional girl. Anyway my point is you can't trust feelings. This applies to any relationship, but I think it's easiest to have this with your spouse. You see them everyday and it's easy to let life get in the way of living. So choose love. Choose to spend time and effort getting to know one another. It's work but it is so worth it!