'Losing"

I've been thinking alot about a new song from Tenth Avenue North. It's called Losing and I recommend you look it up.Here's the first verse and chorus.
I can't believe what she said
I can't believe what he did
Oh, don't they know it's wrong?
Don't they know it's wrong?

Well maybe there's something I missed
But how could they treat me like this?
It's wearing out my heart
The way they disregard

This is love. This is hate. 
We all have a choice to make

Oh, Father won't You forgive them?
They don't know what they've been doin' (oh no)
Oh, Father, give me grace to forgive them
Cause I feel like the one losin'

At first I didn't really get this song. But due to some circumstances with my friends it has become more and more clear. I love the chorus especially. The second to last line is probably my favorite. When you're hurt by people it's impossible to forgive them and love them in your own strength. We have to very often ask for the strength to forgive them. It's been really cool for me to remember that.